How can you tell if a woman is interested inyou? Answer quickly. So what gives? Why am I asking you a trick question? Simple. Because I'm trying to make you THINK. I'm sure that, just like me, you've read ahundred books and articles that say things like: "If she tilts her head to one side and strokes herneck, that's a sign of interest..." "If she licks her lips in a longing fashion, thatmeans she's interested in you..." "If she laughs a lot, makes positive eye contact,and touches you often, then she likes you..." DUH! I remember when I first read all this stuff. I thought to myself "Wow, cool! I must havebeen missing these hints because I didn't know tolook for them. Now I'll know when a woman isinterested in me..." Well, there was ONE SMALL problem... The problem is that women display these MAJORINTEREST signals in about 1 of 100 interactionswith men... And there was one BIG problem... That problem was that none of the damn books Iread said a single thing about how to MAKE womengive you these signals. In other words, what I realized is that averageguys like me who don't get "approached" by womenneed to learn not only WHAT to look for, but, moreimportantly, how to actually CREATE ATTRACTION inwomen so they GAVE me these signals in the FIRSTPLACE. So let me share with you some ideas on how toMAKE women feel ATTRACTION for you... and thenI'll share some ideas on what to LOOK FOR to tellif a woman is interested. And my ideas will be a WEEEEEE BIT differentthan the ones you read in your flirting books. OK, so you're out at a bar with a few friends,and it's time to meet some interesting women. You look around, and none of the hot youngbabes in there seem to be tilting their heads toone side, looking you in the eye, and lickingtheir lips... so you decide to DO SOMETHING. What do most guys do in this situation? Either: 1) Nothing, because they're scared, or... 2) Something typical, like ask a girl to dance, orif he can buy her a drink. If you're guilty of doing these, raise yourhand. Then take your raised hand, and slap yourselfsilly. Not too hard. But silly. If I have your attention, and you're interestedin becoming a MASTER of using Body Language tocreate ATTRACTION, then check this out: http://www.DatingTechniques.com/e/10319/BodyLanguage/?cid=3ZAZZZ&lid=2 Here's a thought for you... If you put 100 guys in a bar with one beautifulwoman sitting alone, and you say to all 100 of theguys, "Hey guys, which one of you can walk over tothat woman and do something to make that womanfeel a SEXUAL ATTRACTION for you?"... I'd say thatif you're LUCKY, one of them will claim that hecan do it. In other words, for most guys, the idea ofwalking up to a girl they don't know and doingsomething that will TRIGGER an attraction iscompletely outside of their universe. This is one of the reasons why guys do thingslike asking girls to dance, buying them drinks,etc. Now, something you must understand when itcomes to women and ATTRACTION is that women don'tfeel ATTRACTION for WUSSIES. ATTRACTION isn't a CHOICE. It isn't logical (at least, on the surface). But once you start to "get it", everythingchanges. Your entire perspective changes once you"get it", and your results change instantly aswell. So here's something for you to try: MESS WITH WOMEN. That's right "mess with" them. Tease. Bust on. Be difficult. Why? Because it INSTANTLY communicates that: 1) You could care less what she thinks of you. 2) You're a fun person. 3) You're unpredictable. 4) You're a bit of a "wild card" 5) You GET IT. Now, you might be shaking your head right nowand saying "That doesn't make any sense. Why woulda woman feel attracted to me if I mess with herinstead of being nice?". That's a good question. But for now, take the hand that you slappedyourself with earlier, and slap yourself again. Good. I want you to STOP following your "be nice andkiss ass" instincts when you first meet a woman,and instead practice MESSING WITH HER. Make fun of something. Go to hand her something, then pull it away atthe last second. Shake your head in despair and tell her thatshe's screwing up her chances with you. Say something Cocky & Funny, then turn aroundand walk away before she can respond to your face. Can ya feel me, dog? Now the good stuff... HOW TO TELL IF SHE'S INTERESTED Well, this is what you were looking for, sohere it is... I'm going to give you a stupid-proof formulafor knowing whether or not a woman is interestedin you. Here it is: 1) You engage her. 2) She engages you back. Yes, that's it. Please stop the applause longenough that I can finish. You can clap later. I know that this sounds a little "Duh-ish", butstay with me here. If I walk into a restaurant, and the hostessasks me how many are in my party, and I answerwith, "Well, there are three of us. I guess therewill be FOUR if YOU join us..." and she laughs atmy joke, then IT'S ON! If I'm standing at the bar, and the woman nextto me bumps into my arm, and I turn and say, "Hey,watch it, OK? Keep some space here, I need atleast a foot of room..." in a serious tone ofvoice... and she starts playing along by smilingand moving away from me then back again playfully,then IT'S ON! If I'm talking to a woman that I met at themagazine rack, and I ask her, "What's with thathuge purse of yours? You got a dog in there orsomething?" and she starts laughing and makingexcuses, then IT'S ON! In a nutshell, what I'm trying to say is: 1) Stop looking around for signals from women thatthey're "interested" in you. 2) Stop CARING whether or not a particular womanis interested in you. 3) Instead, start TRIGGERING the interest, andwatching to see if women ENGAGE. If they do, thenassume that IT'S ON! As long as you use how she's responding to whatYOU do as your gauge, then you'll have a MUCHeasier time spotting the "she wants me" clues... ...Because YOU ARE THE ONE CAUSING THEM. And... ...and if you want literally HUNDREDS andHUNDREDS of killer ideas for making women feelATTRACTION for you, then go get a copy of myAdvanced Dating Techniques Program. This program will give you a COMPLETEfoundation for overcoming fear, approaching women,getting dates, and taking things to a "physical"level quickly... easily... and without rejection. I'm serious.
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